RISK - Nursing in a Foreign Land

She was a  Nurse Manager on a unit I worked on at one time, back when we called them  "Head Nurses".  Most of the nurses on the unit didn't really care for her....she was *old fashioned* - and not in a good way, or sensible way.   But - she did have her "posse" that she hung out with and were her "faithful few".

She ruled it MANDATORY that all nurses on her unit were to wear caps! (I didn't even own one)  Also - It was mandatory to wear pantyhose with the uniform-even pant scrubs. Her reasoning? -  to "catch the pubic hairs" when you had to go into the OR - it was a "hygienic" thing she said (although I have no idea what she expected would happen when the alternate-gendered nurses and MDs(both sexes) didn't wear their pantyhose). **

Pink see-through scrub dresses were her choice of scrubs for the unit (crawling up on the bed or bending over was problematic, never mind that one's slip would always ride up and bunch up around the waist with these scrubs-revealing everything).

 She would look down her nose at you if you weren't "somebody" or "wealthy".... although she herself spent money she didn't have like it was water and barely had a pot to piss in due to her extravagant expenditures.

 

In her mind - this is what she thought
the scrubs looked like....

She was judgemental of anyone that didn't spend a fortune on what they wore (as she did),  or didn't socialize in a "particular" social circle(as she attempted to do). 

She would never be caught dead buying anything on sale or going to anything less than a name brand store,  or buying the best..... all while going into debt.  She looked at you in horror if you mentioned Walmart or Target or Dollar Store.

It could possibly be that this enormous debt she piled up with all her outrageous spending caused her to look outside of the country to get her finances in order.

From what I hear....it was a nightmare.

I am thinking she would have carried the same attitude with her as an expat in Saudi Arabia.   I am certain she would not have made very many friends with the way she treated people.   

Apparently she did have one friend there....because it was the friend and herself that got into a whole lot of trouble.

When I travel anywhere, I tend to find out what the laws are and then lay low -  following those laws to the letter.  I also avoid doing anything rashly stupid either.  When in Rome,  they say.....

If one is going to a land that actually punishes the smallest of infractions with cutting off the hand and/or public flogging and quite possibly putting you to death,  sensibility might tell one to refrain from going to that country in the first place.  Especially if one has Attitude and No Common Sense.

I am afraid common sense wasn't a strong suit with this chick.

As the story goes, this nurse and her friend got in trouble for taking photos that they shouldn't have been taking.***  Whatever it was they took photos of,  the "authorities" arrested them, confiscated their cameras and detained them.  



 One of the first things they do when you go to  Saudi to work - they will take away your passport and hold it for you.   So, sans passport and sans contact with the outside world, they were imprisoned. 

They were not allowed contact with anyone.  They did not have access to consulates or other friends or nurses.   They were kept separately in a prison stripped bare of any necessities save maybe a sink and a hole in the ground for a toilet, which to this nurse, was quite an inconvenience I am sure.

For several weeks they were kept in prison - probably one that was a step up from your regular Saudi prisoner but devoid of any niceties.   It was the not knowing what was going to happen to them that ate at them.  They must have been well aware of the possibile consequences.

When you travel to another country, there is only so much that our government can  and will do.  I just got my new passport sent to me from our government and some of the cautions they sent along (an information pamphlet included) are:

1. Your Citizenship offers no immunity
2.  Consular officials do not intervene in private legal matters, do not provide legal advice, do not post bail or pay fines or legal fees.  They do not investigate a crime or death, they do not ask local authorities to give preferential treatment to Canadians.

3.  They do not make travel arrangements, or pay for any expenses, and they do not coordinate and pay for search-and-rescue efforts to locate missing Canadians.

Peeking through the opening through which dinner is served at a Riyadh prison

Basically, they were at the mercy of the Saudi Government.

Luckily for them, due to the Saudi Government's good graces, within a couple months, she was sent home to her country - tail between legs - and unfortunately was given her old job back.  (Question.  Why do they always seem to do that?)

In her absence there was quite the shakeup and major changes made at the hospital back at home.  No longer was it mandatory to wear the white caps.  The pink scrub dresses were still around, but most nurses had switched over to the greens.   She had lost control of *her* crew.  

It didn't take long.....she was ousted quietly from her position....and put in charge of some innocuous area in the hospital where she could do little damage (why do they even bother?).


  I was never so glad as to leave that place for good. 

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**note her evidence based nursing decisions here.....(no need to ask - I am being sarcastic)
***As an aside here, though - I have a couple other nurse friends who have worked in Saudi,  and neither of them say they had any problems whatsoever....and they had taken many photos without incident.   Let's just say that someone ruffled a few feathers of someone with influence....