"What do you want to do ?" he asked.
"Simple," I explained " I don't want the Melanoma to re-occur, and if the best chance of that not happening means further surgery, that is what I want. But I do want to know the reasoning behind doing surgery vs not doing surgery and what do they base their decision on?" I wanted to know what the disparity was between the docs and what data they use to back up their opinions.
So Plastics#3 right then and there, got out his dictation recorder and dictated a letter of reference to the Oncologist/Dermatologist to request a formal meeting with me and then make a recommendation.
I figure I have enough time for that to happen. Then I have an appointment for follow up with Plastics#3 on September 25th and we will go from there. He does say that he can do reconstructive surgery without destroying what is already done. I was worried about that.
Another reason why I want things to get going is because I have other lesions and moles around on my body that I need reviewed by a Dermatologist.
So it's one more "hurry up and wait" situation, and meanwhile - I am still off on sick leave.
I can't imagine trying to making sense at work while all this tumultuous stuff is going on.
I wouldn't have time to fit work in my busy appointment schedule plus all the follow-up on everyone to make sure something actually happens.
At this point I can't trust anyone but myself.
Good news is, according to my dentist, my teeth and gums are perfect.
| speaking of major reconstruction: The Port Mann Bridge, old and new. |
3 comments:
I really do love reading your episodes. Your wit and humour just shine. Glad your teeth are perfect! Give that steel in your spine an extra buffing - your strong core deserves it :-)
It seems to be an international truth that the situation that most requires that we vigorously advocate for ourselves is the situation that is the most overwhelming and stressful.
If my experience is anything to go by, your good sense and sense of humor will see you through!
Laurie: Thanks for your comment and yes...that "steel" in my spine does need a buffing. More to come now....
KT: Well said!!and yes, I am trying to use a good dose of humour. There's nothing else that works anyway!
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