Sunday, April 15, 2012

When to visit the MD? Dirty little Nurses' secrets....

I suppose this could apply to my husband.

I am always running interference with him,  trying to avoid an MD/hospital visit - even though neither would cost us anything extra, except for the time spent in the waiting room.....



My cousin is also an RN, and her husband agrees.  In fact, he says it's "waaaay worse for husbands".

I know, too,  that unless my husband is really doing badly - because I have seen much worse in the hospital - he doesn't get a lot of sympathy from me.

My best RN girlfriend's husband was really sick with the flu lately.....and what sort of sympathy did he get?   "I told you to get a flu shot"....and she continued playing Scrabble on her iPad.....

After working 35 years as an RN in the hospital system, on a scale of 1 to 10 on the Tragic Scale, you aren't going to rate very high, honey.   So, rest assured that if I don't panic....you are probably going to live, and it's not worth the excitement you might think it does!

I am wondering how widespread this phenomenon is????

Friday, April 13, 2012

How do you Know it's spring? The Leafs are out!

Since it is Hockey Playoff season, I can't resist!

A dig at the Toronto Maple Leaf Team, once again, eliminated before the playoffs:



You almost have to feel sorry for the Toronto Maple Leaf Hockey team! Their losing streak is worst in the league.   I remember when they were actually good, and had all those great players!

That's ok, because they are still the wealthiest team out there.......and the fans are still loyal, no matter what!  No need to apologise!

I had to laugh, though, at this guy below - his response to the Leaf's Management's apology.
Quite harsh!



I also had to laugh at the LA Kings' tweet after their win over the Canucks in the first match game:

"To everyone in Canada outside of BC, you're welcome."

It's a well known fact that our Vancouver Canucks, for some strange twisted reason, is the most hated team in the NHL.   (Ok, so this poll taken suggests otherwise! Perhaps it's all the chirping going on!)

That tweet has garnered a lot of criticism....and there was a little bit of an apology offered by the LA Kings.

No need, LA!!

I think the proof will be in the pudding....after all, there are 6 more games to go.

One win does not a Stanley Cup Champion make!

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

When I am old....

When I am in an old folks' home,  I think I would rather have all the 1970s era music:



It's amazing how music affects people. Certainly I have seen a response in the elderly I have visited - when their favourite music is played.

Would I listen to disco? Hard to say.

It certainly would bring up memories!

Monday, April 2, 2012

Wedding Crashers

My mom and dad were married 60 years ago this year.   They were married in Vancouver and took the train to Mount Hood in Oregon for their honeymoon.

While they were on their honeymoon, the news of the death of the King of England was announced.  A new Queen was crowned and  thus began the 2nd longest reign in the history of England.

This year, the Royal family is travelling to all the Dominion and make visits to all the countries that were once under British rule while the Queen fulfills obligations at home.

This past month, the Queen did something special for a newly wed couple:




Perhaps I should write the Queen and let her know about another wedding 60 years ago. A letter is usually sent in reply. Mom and Dad will be very surprised.

They already have been sent a letter from the Premier (equivalent to a State Governor), the Prime Minister (equivalent to the US President) , the local Member of Parliament (MP - Federal Representative in their area), the local Member of the Legislative Assembly (MLA - Provincial Representative in their area) and the Governor General (Queen's Representative in Canada).

One from the Queen in her Jubilee year would please them immensely!

Who knows? Perhaps the President may oblige. 

After all, when my Grandpa turned 100 - then President Clinton sent him a letter of congratulations!

Sunday, April 1, 2012

"Crying Kids while flying" Solution? Child-Free Cabins!

Hmmm.....  A new promotion for my favourite Airlines, just announced today:




As they advertise on their website:

Introducing Kargo Kids, an exciting new program allowing guests to travel on select child-free flights, creating a quieter and more relaxing inflight experience, while children travel in a "special VIP" area of the aircraft.

"This is a win-win situation for guests travelling on these flights," said Richard Bartrem, WestJet, Vice-President, Communications and Community Relations. "This new service offers little WestJetters an incredible travel experience while providing their guardians and our other guests with a quiet, child-free cabin."

"As Canada's low-cost airline, we are constantly looking for innovative and fun ways to enhance the guest experience," continued Richard Bartrem. "The initial feedback on Kargo Kids has been quite positive and we're looking forward to the peace and quiet while we get families where they need to be."







April Fools!

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Double Rainbow

My husband has just left for a business trip to Vancouver Island.

Here is the photo he *just* took with his iPhone from the deck of the ferry.

Incredible, isn't it?


The sun is trying to shine here....the sun is breaking through.

I want summer to arrive.

And I already miss my husband.

When Simon Cowell is wrong....again.

You just can't judge a book by it's cover.


Yet we do it every day.

Watch this.  The boy is 17.  The girl is 16.

What is amazing is that the girl, Charlotte sticks up for her friend Jonathan.   In turn, Jonathan doesn't abandon his friend Charlotte. 

So sweet.  

We should all be like these two.   And - what talent!



By the way.....
Here is a video from Jonathan's YouTube channel...one he just put up a week ago - beautiful sound and a "must hear".....

Friday, March 23, 2012

Bearing arms and Consequences

It is a sad situation when a  vigilante can shoot and kill a kid  -  minding his own business after buying some skittles and an iced tea at the corner store - and get away with it.


In Canada - you shoot someone  - no matter what, you are taken into custody and at very minimum - the gun is removed from that person.  You can't just go out in your neighborhood and shoot someone, even though sometimes you might feel like it.

I am not going to get into the whole argument whether guns should or shouldn't be allowed or the stats for or against guns etc.   That's a whole argument in of itself that could go on and on with opposing sides braced for a long haul.


this is what my bf's gun looked like
I am opposed to gun possession without restrictions and people should have training and a personality test  plus a record check before being allowed to possess any firearms - and no one will change my opinion on that. 

Interestingly enough, as a high school student, skeet shooting and handgun handling was part of our recreation education curriculum.   

Sounds weird nowadays, especially in Canada, doesn't it? 

But, those were more innocent times, I guess....shortly before my friend at school was gunned down by a crazy American with a gun out in his father's orchard - along with 7 others.   The shooter is still locked up in a forensic psychiatric facility - for almost 40 years now - too insane to be released. 

Every two years he is allowed a parole hearing and my friend's family risks driving on snowy, icy mountain passes in the dead of winter every time - and live the tragedy over and over again... just to ensure he isn't released.

Ten years later, I lived  with a guy that did own a handgun - six shooter type (permit given by the RCMP after a vetting process), which by the way, was always kept under lock and key, stashed safely away at all times. 

The law in Canada states that hand guns require registration and a permit must be obtained whenever transported  even if going to the shooting range.  The permit would clearly state origin and destination.   One must take the gun to where it is going by the most direct route only - under lock and key and out of sight - no side trips to the liquor store or any such thing. 

If caught - the penalties are costly.

I must admit, we were guilty of taking  the handgun out on occasion to do target shooting in our backyard - taking aim at pop cans on yonder stump.

But, even while target practicing, I never did understand the need for a handgun.


photos from this website


Back to the idiot who just killed an unarmed kid.

Interestingly enough, a study was done at Notre Dame University, soon to be published in the Journal of Experimental Psychology: Human Perception and Performance*,  that suggests persons packing a gun are biased towards thinking that everyone else has a gun also.

In five experiments, subjects were shown images of people holding various neutral objects such as a can of pop or cell phone while holding either a toy gun or a neutral object such as a foam ball.  The images were all varied -  different races, with or without ski masks etc.   In every case, the study showed that holding a gun changed the subject's perception that the image shown was also was holding a gun.


“Beliefs, expectations and emotions can all influence an observer’s ability to detect and to categorize objects as guns,” Brockmole** says. “Now we know that a person’s ability to act in certain ways can bias their recognition of objects as well, and in dramatic ways. It seems that people have a hard time separating their thoughts about what they perceive and their thoughts about how they can or should act.”
As the article says, this study can have ramifications for law enforcement and public safety. 

Someone tell that to Treyvon Martin. 

If he could answer, I am sure he would say, yes, indeed, it does.

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*Journal of Experimental Psychology: Human Perception and Performance

** Dr. James R. Brockmole

Saturday, March 17, 2012

A Conundrum

Right now, in a lot of communities here in B.C., it's difficult to find an MD.
 
Due to a lot of issues, I have migrated away from my local MD - Dr Johnny Depp  -  and am going back to my former MD an hour and a half drive away.

I don't know what the solution is....but whatever it is....the progress to availability to health care in some rural communities is going at a snail's pace.

Of course, we pay taxes that covers healthcare so "expensive"
doesn't really apply directly!But definitely hard to get sometimes!

The same with nurses.  There aren't enough of us out there....and this needs to change.

Our Union - BCNU - is now trying to negotiate with the government to commit to more nurses to improve health care in our province.   We are asking Zero increase in wages for the next contract.

If there aren't more nurses added to the workforce....our health care will continue to suffer.  Nurse burnout is rampant in all hospitals across the province.

We still love the system we have, we just want to improve it. 

More later.

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And by the way THERE ARE TWO EGGS IN THE EAGLES' NEST!!!!

TAKE A PEEK!!!

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

The Eagle's Nest has an Egg in it!!

So the Eagle has laid an egg....you can go to the website and take a peek.....or be like me and obsessively watch it!

Click on the Eagle photo to the right of this entry! ---------->